I met this girl (call her Molly) through our local dating app. She’s my first match actually as I’m 22M and just started using dating apps. Here, people usually try for relationships after graduating from college and securing a job. I did the same, so I’m new and needs your judgment guys.
I will be honest even if I unintentionally end up sounding rude. So basically, I’ve my priorities straight, physical attraction matters a lot for me. We’ve been talking to each other since a month, things were going smooth and we decided to meet at a popular park to spend the evening together.
Turns out Molly has a big, black mole on her face between her cheek and nose which is almost the size of a penny. I don’t mean to offended anyone, but such huge moles are a big turn off for me and I find them…kinda disgusting. I can’t even imagine my lips accidently touching it…while kissing anywhere on face.
At first I though it’s something else because her face has no moles in the pictures she has posted on the app…I confronted her directly, realized that she’s very insecure of it and hence used AI to remove it and then posted on dating apps.
Now the bigger issue for me is her being so insecure of her face and the fact that she’s basically deceiving me from Day 1. Both her mole and her lying from day one combine to be a reason big enough for me to serious rethink this potential relationship, and I’m leaning towards ending the things up as soon as possible.
AITA? She’s definitely going to think it happened solely because of her mole making her further even more insecure. Moreover, we had formed a pretty awesome chemistry over the text.