Context: Last year I suffered Things without consent from my boyfriend at the time. We broke up and I filed a complaint with the authorities., but it didn’t go any further because his mother and my parents reached an agreement.
I’m now dating a guy who unfortunately is from the same group of friends as my ex (we go to the same class But they’ve never been close.).
The point is that in two days his whole group of friends is going to the movies and he told me that my ex would also be there, he said that he wouldn’t talk to her but it makes me uncomfortable that they share such an intimate space together.
It should be clarified that I haven’t actually expressed my anger to him; I don’t know if I should be angry.
We had a fight a month ago because when I confessed to him what my ex had done to me , My boyfriend told me that he couldn’t be mean to my ex and that he kept replying to his casual conversations because he felt sorry for him and couldn’t bring himself to be a bad person.
If this boyfriend isn’t willing to tell your ex, flat out, that what he did was wrong, that means he doesn’t really care what you went through. He’s prioritizing his own comfort over your safety. Make of that what you will. NTA.