So basically, a story recap where we are pretty much best buds and we kinda started arguing more often about why we don’t spend much time together like usual since he was my best pal since a whole school year passed.
And I’ve gotta be honest with him, this whole year he’s been rude to my siblings whenever he comes to visit and he’s not very considerate and that just irks me a bit since I don’t like him being disrespectful to any of my siblings at all that have been with me since life.
Whenever I confront him about it, he just says he’s criticizing them slightly and it’s not a big deal at all, but it doesn’t look like that since he just straight up insults them to their faces and doesn’t show any respect.
I want to just actually man up and tell him to stop being so disrespectful to people I know but it’s kind of hard when he’s constantly rolling his eyes at me.
He knows I’m busy and all with highschool but he seems to not care at all since school isn’t really ‘needed’ and I’m not taking advice from him since he’s failing a bunch of classes obviously but he keeps on pressuring me to hang out with him more often since we’re ‘bestfriends’.
Sorry if this post seemed like I was ranting, I just needed to blow off some steam and I’m not sure on what to do at all since I don’t want to lose him but he’s a huge jerk with a big ego.
He’s not your friend he’s narcissistic
I think so too, but I don’t have any other friends besides from him in school so I’m stuck with him for a while longer.
Maybe you can have a talk about boundaries and how he makes you feel end of the day it’s your life and you deserve friends who care about you and are not a nightmare
Yeah, you’re right thanks for giving me tips. I’ll talk to him next Monday when I see him since I don’t want to text him for the weekend right now.
I really don’t blame you I hope it goes well but you know what you have to do I sincerely wish you healthy and happy relationships
You too, thanks for talking with me !!
nta, but this isn’t just about hanging out. someone who’s consistently disrespectful to your siblings and brushes it off isn’t being a good friend to you either. those are your family.
NTA you do not have to hang out with a best friend that doesn’t respects your siblings