so its been months. one time there is friend of my bestfriend who tell me a story how he pissed at the cops for giving him tickets for speeding and violating red light
my reaction was "bro its your fault how come you pissed? its stupid bruh you speedin how come u mad😂" he mad
then he blocked me. but i dont realize. after months. i realized he blocked me.
i asked the groupchat, no one answer. then i ask my bestriend why he blocked me. he said "he doesnt like you, you called him stupid. i dont want a part of this."
well i told him then im sorry i was kidding since he speeding and get ticketed. i dont mean to insult him.
after i have the chance to meet in person, we are in my bestfriend room. i apologize genuinely "Hey im sorry for the comment i make. i wont do it again. i know when to apologize when i overstepped other boundaries." but his handshake was limp and dont even bother to give a response. when he want to go home, he greet and say farewell to everyone but me. like im not there. so petty, giving attitude, and immature.
what the fck? we are 20 years old. how come you dont let it go? what else do you want?
i told this to my other friend. he told me he been speaking in the back about me, saying "he told me he lost respect of you cuz you called him stupid. careful there, he is the son of a general and his mother is a lawyer, he could destroy you over something like this."
he promise to talk and convince him to not make things worse. but i must promise never joke or reacts to him again.
who in fault here? i mean if i step on boundary just tell me and i will apologize, making unnecessary dramas like this incite rumors and gossips among the group and often it would break the circle like OFTENLY. this is the first time. am i the bad guy??
This person is not your friend. Â
This person is not a safe person for you to spend time around. If they can do those things to impact your life.Â
NTA and if the quote of your friend is true then I would stop associating with the guy. His background explains his reactions. If you will be around him, you will either have to enabke his narcissism or he will mistreat you.
his background explains his reactions? you mean like he is spoiled brat? damn. i will do that.
So the son of a general and a lawyer got tickets for speeding and red light? And didn’t mention his family to the police? Sounds like that cop should be pretty fucked by now- this story prob has more to it-
NTA. You made a blunt comment, realized it bothered him, and apologized genuinely twice. That should’ve been the end of it.
He’s 20, holding a grudge for months, giving you the silent treatment, and apparently threatening to “destroy you” through his parents over a speeding ticket joke? That’s way more immature than your original comment.
You’ve apologized enough. Keep your distance from this guy he’s not acting like a friend. Someone who responds to an apology with threats and petty games isn’t worth your energy.
This guy is not you friend, buddy
He’s not your buddy, guy.
He’s not your guy, pal
NTA. He is for breaking the law. You just pointed out his stupidity.
ESH. You didn’t know this person. You can’t be this “candid” with people you are only acquainted with.
He is an AH for playing the “my mommy is a lawyer” card and for speeding and complaining about it in the first place.
omg he blocked u for calling out his speeding and then ran to tell your bestie? major overreaction, you were just being honest about something that was literally his fault 🙄.
NTA. He’s pulling the “my daddy is a general and my mommy is a lawyer?” card? I wonder if he tried that on the cop. He’s too immature for you to deal with. Move on.Â
I have no time for people who drive dangerously so you’re not the asshole for calling him out.
NTA
I do feel you’re being naive though. If you call someone stupid and embarrass them publicly they’re obviously not going to be happy and not going to like you. Even if you are right. Im not really sure what you expected.
I’d only call someone out so bluntly if I didn’t want to be associated with them anymore.
YTA for this terrible grammar, your friend is an over sensitive moron