His main excuse is work and that he is tired but I don’t mind if he just sleeps when he comes over, I mean our usual hangouts is just us in my room which I love. I was thinking maybe learn how to massage? He loves when I massage him but I’m not a professional by any means. I just want to be his safe space and like his favorite place to hangout (maybe move in too hehe).
I’m really open to any suggestions or like if you need more context let me know too
(I accidentally posted this in the wrong sub so I’m reuploading to the correct one)
I don’t need to be convinced to go and hang out in a bedroom with a girl I like.
This feels like simping but for women…
They’re both men
How old are you?
And wait dude, you’re a guy? Like you’re gay?
Is he out with his sexual orientation?
Check the post history. He shouldn’t be spending even a moment alone with this nut job.
Just went thru it and you’re right… 😭 Holy moly ++woman idk why it’s making me say that just to respond to u
Oh that’s…. Fucking nuts
Jeeeeeeesus
If thisnt some massive larp this dude is batshit, strong contender for a self hug jacket in a padded room with some booty juice holy BPD
++man
It’s either a complete rage bait account, or it’s a crime scene waiting to happen. I genuinely pray that nobody this unwell is walking around in public.
It’s not that he doesn’t get that he’s insane, he’s genuinely arguing that it’s a good thing.
From everything I’ve read, you need to work on managing your expectations.
Him not being able to live authentically is exhausting in itself. And he has work, and it’s a two hour round trip… I’m exhausted just thinking about it.
Do you really think pressuring him is fair? I promise I’m not being snarky, but please work on being grateful for the time you do have together. Maybe focus on some hobbies? Or work?
From reading your post history I can see why he doesn’t want to.