Is it a bad sign or did i just ask her too soon so she doesnt know how to respond yet? Like for example today is Tuesday and Saturday isnt until a few days away so maybe she doesnt know how to answer yet and will be able to answer later this week since she’ll know better what her schedule will be like? Or am i coping and it’s a red flag instead?
In my experience it’s always better to ask for availability first and then plan a date around that.
Yup so before that we had talked and she said saturday would be a good day for her to hangout. I then proceed to ask if 1pm would work and havent gotten a response yet.
Then all you can do is wait. Stop stressing if she answers you back or not and go about your life
IDK…maybe doesn’t want to seem too eager…maybe wants to be pursued a little…maybe has just been busy…or perhaps just not interested. I’d follow up after 48hrs and then you will know the answer.
Whatever you do, don’t ask again or follow-up in any way
Yeah she’s not interested. Cause from experience, a girl who’s interested would definitely reply within 24 hours, especially at the start when everything is new and exciting. If its crickets, she’s not interested.
Any girl who has been interested in me never made me wait a whole day to hear back from them.
100%. Nowadays a girl’s phone is TIG welded to her hands. A message literally takes 12 seconds to send. No one on this planet hasn’t got 12 seconds to spare in 24 hours and no one is busier than someone that’s not interested.
It’s always a bad sign when they don’t answer for over 24 hours no matter what it is. She’s not interested in you, at best she likes the free attention you’re giving her.
I’ve dated BigLaw lawyers, prosecutors, doctors, and a high level executive of a F500 company.
Nobody is too busy to respond within 24 hours to a person they like.
Lol nice. Tbf tho we havent met in person yet. She’s from online so the interest level isnt as high since we havent officially met yet.
Yeah it’s a bad sign. Don’t listen to anyone who says shes busy. We’re all busy, but if it’s a date with romantic intent and shes really interested, she wouldn’t have you waiting a whole day to respond. She would get back as soon as she would reasonably be able to.
Like if im at work and a cute girl wants to chat me up im gonna respond every free moment I get. Im sorry dude shes not that interested im afraid.
Personally, I wouldn’t worry about it. Get on with your life. Don’t prioritise someone who isn’t prioritising you. If she was super keen, you’d have gotten an answer in minutes. The best date is with someone who’s eager to spend time with you. Find someone better.
Don;t get too wrapped up in texting times or deadlines. You asked her question he ball is in her court, leave it until later the week and don’t sweat it.