Sometimes I give my boyfriend head and when he finishes in my mouth it seems like he’s almost too sensitive to enjoy it? I will typically keep sucking while he finishes and I can’t tell if his intense reaction while he finishes is because it feels good or if it feels like too sensitive to the point of it hurting? Is this a common thing with men?
He may prefer it if you let up once he reaches the point of cumming. Don’t take it out of your mouth if it is comfortable for you, just ease up.
Right after orgasm it can get sensitive very quickly. It stops feeling good and just feels like too much!
If we orgasm at the same time…the contractions while im inside are intense enough for me to be light headed
But ill gladly do that on a regular basis
Yeah maybe 10 seconds after I orgasm I need to give my dick a break or I’m not having fun anymore
It’s a very common thing with men. It’s [literally a meme from 2014](https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/nutted-but-she-still-sucking)
And let’s not forget that it’s the subject of the Foo Fighters song [Everlong](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eBG7P-K-r1Y) “ promise not to stop when I say when” means he wants to be overstimulated
As with most things, ask your man because he’ll let you know if he likes it or not
It can become a sensory overload once you reach that point. It’s not painful necessarily, but it isn’t pleasant lol.
Just ask him….
Why??
Why not ask the interwebs first before communicating with my partner…
Both of u shhhh I’m jacking it here
The french call orgasm the petite mort, or the little death. When it gets sensitive shortly after orgasm the sensitivity becomes pleasure mixed with pain. If he didn’t like it, he would have told you to stop. If he didn’t, keep doing it.
Only real answer
If you can’t tell something, why not just literally ask? It’s a common thing for men to have extreme sensitivity right after, but not everyone is the same.
Yes it’s common, you need to release the sucking strength as he comes, it does become unbearable if you continue.
EDIT: I want to point out something as I feel there might be some confusion on other commenters answers. You do not need to go full stop as he comes, hand action is still required on full effect, but the gland is getting ultra sensitive real fast, so you need to release the intensity / pressure / strength of whatever you are doing to it, while continuing the rest of the stimulation until he is done. In my case, I can orgasm for a good 30 seconds, and I feel I’m on the long spectrum, might not be the same for most.
It’s not that the orgasm is too intense, it’s that within seconds after orgasm most guys need a break from stimulation on their penis or it becomes uncomfortable. In my experience in that condition, oral stimulation feels a lot worse than vaginal. My suggestion is once he cums, stop sucking and give him control of where his penis goes.