This happened in like late summer maybe early fall. This was the 4th date i think, so we weren’t really together yet. she wanted to go to a fair but i told her that im scared of rides and i wouldn’t go on any. She kept bugging me to go so i folded and she said it was fine to not go on rides. We get there and whenever she would go on a ride she would like try to convince me to go on it with her, but like i said i would refuse every time im not gonna have a panick attack just for a minute ride and whiplash lmao. Whenever she would go she would like do an exasperated sigh and go on, eventually she started making fun of me and calling me a pussy and whatnot. She seemed pretty frusturated. So this happened like 8 times and when she went on one ride i just left and blocked her. I can understand if she didnt want to date me cause im scared of shit and not manly, but she could’ve been cool about it at least. I was her ride so i felt kinda bad leaving her there.
NTA, play stupid games win stupid prizes
Unironically, that’s a fair in a nutshell.
Thought I should be on theme 😂
You two weren’t meant for each other.
It’s been a few months so move on.
ESH
Still not ok
ESH. she was quite shitty with her attitude, but you left her stranded. was there even a possibilty to get home for her?
Nope, she’s a carnie now.
ESH – She sucks more, but I wouldn’t have considered you weak as a man until you abandoned her.
I don’t like carnival rides either. My husband and daughter ride together while I hike everyone’s things and take photos. It works for all of us.
Screw that. She starts verbally abusing, then why the hell would you stay? She can call a cab to get home. He’s a weak man because he would stay and put up with her abuse? What planet are you on?
I disagree with your opinion thinking he’s weak for leaving a date yeah he was the ride originally but there’s not an expectation of getting someone home if things go south on the date you go on dates to get a feel for the person and you bail if things go bad no one is entitled to deal with what they consider bad behavior and she was being pretty bad especially with pure pressure then picking on him idk the woman and I couldn’t tell you if she was trying to be flirty and joking but it doesn’t sound that