I (16m) made my sister (18) angry because I told her to stop whining. So me, her, and my other sister (18) were all sitting in the lounge room just chilling. I was just sitting down and humming something then let’s call her Jane, basically Jane yells “Can you just sit down and be quiet, no singing. Be quiet for a sec” I be quiet because I obviously don’t intend on saying anything back and i’m being respectful.
Then moments later, Jane and my other sister were talking about a gathering last night on the couch across from me, “What” i say and Jane replies with “Just WAIT!” Like I am not exaggerating when I use an exclamation mark as she actually yelled at me. Now, i’m getting a bit frustrated because this is the second time she is yelling at me even though i was asking a question in what i hope was a nice tone, however I shrug it off and move on.
Jane and my other sister begin showing each other photos of the gathering last night through their phones and i come up in the discussion. With this, i feel a bit left out so I just ask “what?” again and i get that it can be annoying but I genuinely wanted to know what it was that regards me. Jane replies with “CAN YOU WAIT, I’M SHOWING HER NOT YOU! YOU CAN WAIT, OH MY GOSH” and drags her sentence in such a condescending tone? its something along that line that just irritates me. Anyway, with a growing frustration, I just shrug it off yet again because i know we’re going to the cinemas later and I don’t want to set her off as she is extremely sensitive.
Now, she asks me to do something that requires me to wait a long time (3 hours). The way she said it however really irked me because it sounded like she was telling me instead of asking me. So I say “Yeah I will after, let me finish this then i’ll do that” and she responds with “Bro what, but you said you would.” She is referring to something i agreed to a whole hour ago so i said “You didn’t specify what though??????????” And she goes “okay but can you still do it?” to which i reply with “Yes i will so can you stop your whining.” I regret it with all my might because I know it just set her off, but she drags her voice and I was irritated with how she was yelling at me before. Then she goes on this whole rant and says “You didn’t have to call me a sook” and then my other sister has her input and it just gets blown out of proportion and Jane starts crying whilst saying “I FUCKING HATE THE WAY HE USES HIS WORDS” and says “I’m not going to no fucking cinema, i’m cancelling my booking since you wanna talk to me like that” and “You with your fucking lips probably smell like fish” Yeah haha so funny laugh. I just go silent because i really don’t want to ruin the cinema experience for after but she just goes on and on until storming off. Then my other sister/her twin says “TurkeySkinner, why do you have to make her cry all the time? You ruined it broooo.”
How can I resolve this and find the words to persuade her, because I really want to go with everyone.
Unhinged
So what is your verdict?