I (36F) have been staying with my sisters (39F) family as we both have young kids and we usually spend Christmas together.
So, yesterday I was looking for my sister as we were supposed to go the mall, and I’m walking around the house looking for he because we agreed on a certain time to head out, and when I open the door to her office, I see her and her husband just making out in there. They pretty much noticed me immediately and I apolgoized and left, but in my minx I was thinking that just doing that in general is super weird. Like we’re not teenagers anymroe and they don’t need to be doing all of that.
Eventuslly we left, and my sister apologized for what i walked in on, and said she got a little “distracted.” I said ”gross” and called her a weirdo, and my sister got kind of miffed over that and said that I was being over dramatic and that I “do it too with my husband” (not really but ok). This led to a back and forth for a bit and the mall was a bit less fun that anticipated
YTA: Your Sister is showing affection to her husband.
But you called her gross & weirdo for kissing her husband ? Do Better OP, Your Sister can do as she pleases. You don’t need to make it a bigger deal than it needs to be.
It’s their fucking house & they’re behind a closed office door. Why do you have a problem with them doing ANYTHING intimate behind a closed door in their own home?!
I believe YOU are the odd 1. And a judgy asshole.
YTA
YTA you were in their house. YTA for saying anything about her and her husband acting like loving partners in their own home. YTA because this sounds like a great relationship that is loving and healthy. Maybe you should take what you say as advice and use it in your own marriage and I bet your husband would be giddy.
YTA – what’s wrong with your sister showing affection to her husband literally in a private area that you walked in on?
YTA. You barged into a closed room and saw two married people making out and made it a big deal. You are the weirdo. You don’t kiss your husband?
do you hate your husband or something that making out with him is a gross concept? i’m glad your sister is in a loving marriage where they’re actively attracted to each other. Also, YOU walked in on THEM and they were in a private room. the only weird one here is you. YTA.
Married people who enjoy foreplay are weird and gross? I’m so sorry about your sex life.
“Don’t need to be doing all of that”
What? Showing affection when they didn’t think anyone was around? You’re the weird, judgy one.