I(20m) was at home on Sunday morning last week, as I didn’t have work that day and on Christmas Break. I finished setting up my switch emulator and getting it to work pokemon legends za and it was sitting in front of me as I was playing madden with my room mate (22m). His girlfriend (21f) recently moved in with us (Novemberish), I still don’t know her that well.
She comes home from work then slumps onto him, clearly tired, and complains about work being super busy. She works at a theater and I did in highschool, so I tried relating, and we keep playing. She was leaning on him and was complaining about cramping, and it was clear he was getting frustrated, which I wasn’t really paying attention to as we were playing. I then got a pretty long touchdown. After that, hs kinda pushes his gf off and says that shes distracting him, to which I said “ohhhh for sure, for sure”, because that’s a silly excuse.
At some point she asks him to get her some water. He said that we were playing and I said I was cool to pause, because it was just a friendly game off madden on the couch,and he gives me this look then goes to the kitchen.
His gf notices my laptop and asks about it, and mentioned playing and we talked about pokemon for a bit, and since my room mate was filling the brita, it took a second, and he came back and we continued to talk about pokemon for a little while he was there. Then we finished our madden game and we all went about our days and I thought nothing of it.
Later however I get a text from him saying that I had to back off his girlfriend, especially since she lives here now. I said asked what he was talking about and he said that I was clearly flirting with her. I said I was just trying to be nice. He said that I was being “too nice” when he didn’t want to have to be, and I was wierd for being super nice to his gf. I told him I was just relating to her, and that either then that we literally talked about a kids game. He told me to stop being “nice” and to back off. I told him he’s being a little insane and he told me to “really fuckinf watch it” and I’m starting to think that maybe I was a little to friendly