Okay so I 25F have two kids (2F) and (5M). I current live with their dad 32M and Aunt their dad’s sister 28F. So backstory here when my daughter was born I had an agreement with their father for him to stay home the first 6 months and watch both our children as I went back to work a week after having her as he had gotten laid off and was having trouble finding a job. That was a year an half ago coming up on three years since he’s had a job. His sister had moved in with us about a year ago and at the time he was looking for work and we had to find a place to go that was bigger to accommodate all of us. We moved into our current place march of 2025 and I had told him to talk to his sister beforehand about what she would be paying monthly as she has a job and when she’s not working she’s at home with us. He had told me that everything would be split 1/3. That was not the case and his sister said that they never had that conversation. She pays $400 a month while I’m forking out 1,099 plus gas, electric,sewer/trash, and water. I told him in June that I could not afford to keep paying all of this money and that he needed to get a job to which he still hasn’t and still says he’s looking and calling agencies to get something and I don’t believe that is the case. I talked to the landlord and they said the only way I can get out of the lease is to either let it run out/ get evicted or buy myself out and I can’t afford to buy myself out right now as I’m playing for everything. So I plan on letting the lease run out in march and moving into my grandparents house where I don’t have to pay nothing only take care of my children. I don’t plan on telling them anything just start moving my stuff out and let them either sign a new lease with each other or they can pay month to month but I won’t be paying nothing
Edit: me and him are not married or together. He’s not on the lease. The landlord and I have talked and he said prior to me making this post that after march if I move out I’ll be taken off the lease and it’ll just be his sister on the lease as me and her minus the kids are on it