So this ex friend and I go way back and she had to abruptly end things because apparently her ex told that I was a “fake friend”. Mind you, this was 4 years of friendship down the drain because her ex told her. Fast forward a year later, she slid into my dms asking how I am and we went on like it was like the old times.
She unblocked me and we kept on communicating only regarding work (work like prep for an interview and so) and whenever I asked how she was… she never replied back.
Today, I was scrolling through my spam acc and I see her posts on the very same acc that sent me a dm.. I remember not seeing it on my main account and when I went and checked, I found out that I was removed from it.
I know it’s childish but I wanna rant saying how immature it is, like I had 0 expectations from her BUT HOLY, how can someone go lower. Like frick, be mature and tell you can’t hold this friendship rather than being a bitch about it.
I contact or just go on with my usual shit?
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in all honesty, its my fault for not adding this and expanding on it but as you know she slid into my dms asking how i am… that day the conversation felt good and she ends the conversation by saying “we will always be friends”…
that being said, i didnt expect much but yeah lol
\*she didnt block me again, she removed my main account from her insta and kept my private acc. \*
Honestly this just sounds messy and one sided. She reaches out when it’s convenient, keeps you at arm’s length, and then quietly cuts you out again.
That’s not a friendship, that’s her keeping you around as a backup or resource.
You already got burned once, I wouldn’t chase clarity from someone who won’t even answer basic questions.
I’d stop reaching out and move on, protecting your peace is way more mature than ranting at her.
tbh i was keeping my distance but you are righht