Sister who bought a gift for me post wedding, a branded hoodie(not cheap) size Small . I rather prefer Medium as it’s fits a bit looesly rather than having it snug.
She has no Reciept or provided a gift Reciept. Just expected it to be the correct size. Although I did find out that she asked about my size and was told I prefer it loosely fitted.
She however ignored and still got the size she deemed correct in her mind as. I have spoken to customer services and they can’t do anything without a Reciept or any kind.
AITA If I ask her for a bank transaction screenshot as thats the only alternative that would allow me to exchange sizes. In UK this is acceptable.
Mind you she is very private with regards to her finances and me asking for this might make her feel uncomfortable.
Although, I’m a little annoyed she knew the size I like to wear for this particular garment.
If they require a receipt to return/exchange it I don’t think the transaction record is going to help you.
You’re doing to much give it to someone else and move on.
YTA i understand you are irritated but you want a screenshot of her bank transactions……? Seriously?
Give it away if you hate it that much but going this far for an exchange is nutty.
I think YTA if you ask for the screenshot of her bank statement, but I don’t think you’d be one for asking her to provide it to the retailer herself (if they will definitely exchange it with the statement). Only because she’s your sister, if it was someone else i’d say let it go 😂
Yta. wtf is wrong with you. Asking for someone’s private banking information is just completely outlandish.
While its OK where you are from doesnt make it okay.
Many places you can ask an individual to call and get a receipt. (Ive done it at many places for my employer. Given them the last few digits and what/when item was purchased and was sent a digital receipt instantly)
But the fact that IT WAS THE RIGHT SIZE FOR YOU. Just didnt fit your esthetic. A simple act could be.
Donate it. Im sure someone would want it.
Dont you have a hoodie that fits you? Or was this your only chance to get one?
Re-gift it back to your sister on the next holiday.
YTA, talk to your sister and ask her for help exchanging it for a larger size
YTA it fits, it’s a gift. It probably slipped her mind on your preferences for jumpers. You’re making it sound quite malicious.
YTA. It was a gift and even more it’s your own sister. Ask her to exchange it for you.
Asking for a bank transaction is wild to me. Maybe it’s a culture difference but that seems horribly personal.
All this over a hoodie that….fits? Just not your preferred fit?
YTA.
NTAH for wanting the right size.. you are TAH for wanting a screen shot of her bank statement.
Have you worn the hoodie? if not put it up for sale and see if you can get enough to get yourself the right size.
Now your sister ITAH for not providing a gift receipt for clothing especially.
I get being bummed that you received something you like but not in your preferred size and not returnable, but asking for a bank statement to try to facilitate the exchange is ridiculous and exhaustingly extra. Yes, sister may have been thoughtful in giving a gift but thoughtless in its execution (not listening to size preference, not saving a gift receipt, etc.), but this is just one of those times where you have to show grace and be thankful for what you did get. It sounds like you \*can\* wear the small, just “prefer” the larger size. Well, you didn’t get the larger size. Just wear it anyway or resell it and buy what you want, but stop complaining about it already.