This is an embarrassing post to make but why do I finish/come so quickly? I finish within 30 seconds to 3 minutes every time, I don’t watch porn or masturbate. Is there any way i can change this? It’s very embarrassing while having sex with my gf and I can tell it ruins the mood with her completely. Any help or advice is needed. Apologies if I’ve labelled this post wrong.
> I don’t watch porn or masturbate.
When actual sex is the only sexual thing you experience (assuming you aren’t getting laid daily), this is pretty much going to be the outcome.
\> outcome
heh
because sex rules.
tactical wank, son.
😂 Tactical wank is my new favorite sex terminology!
Just go for round 2. It doesn’t need to be 1 and done
Look at Mr Big Dick over here able to have sex more than one time in a day.
Did someone call my name?
IDK, I finish fast. I used to let it get to me. One day I didn’t care as much and tried to not think about it and then noticed I was lasting longer. Still faster .. But longer than before. It can be a mental game.
The trick is to not let your soldier go soft after the first shot.
Tell her to slurp the bad boy and once you’re hard enough go for the second round and there you’ll be so desensitised you can last an hour.
Its a classic porn trick.
Beyond seeing a doctor, if indeed it’s a medical issue, you should try masturbating more…especially if you know you’re going to have sex later that day. You need to reduce sensitivity and get more accustomed to it. Also…even if you finish fast, you can still pleasure your partner in other ways…and many women find oral stimulation better than vaginal sex .
This is normal male sexual response. There’s nothing wrong with you.
Tell your sweetheart she’s so hot you can hardly control yourself. Let it happen.
Then hang out in bed with her for a while and go again. Seriously.
Try being 40 and being on meds that dont let you come at all
>Try being 40
That’s a complete sentence. ; )
On behalf of women thank you for ensuring your partner is satisfied. I dated a guy for many years who had the same problem. Over the years it got better but he ALWAYS made sure I had at least one orgasm from oral sex before we had sex. When he felt he was going to cum too fast he would stop or pull out. Great sex can be defined so many ways – as long as both of you are satisfied. Find what works for the two of you. I can say…it’s been over a decade since we were together and nobody has come even remotely close to his oral skills. It was that memorable. Enjoy!