AITA for being annoyed that my housemates woke me up to cut a birthday cake even though I’ve said I don’t celebrate my birthday or eat cake?

I don’t like celebrating my birthday. I just don’t enjoy the attention or the rituals around it. I’ve been very clear about this over the years. I don’t tell people my birthday, I don’t celebrate it, and I don’t eat cake or sweets in general. I might have a piece of chocolate very rarely. When my housemates have birthdays, I usually politely decline cake or sweets. They’re aware of this.

Over the past week, I’ve been working late-night shifts and was feeling pretty tired, so I’ve been sleeping during my day off to recover. Recently, my housemates woke me up to cut a cake for my birthday. I was irritated for several reasons:

– I’ve explicitly said I don’t celebrate my birthday
– I don’t eat cake
– I was woken up without warning
– It wasn’t even my actual birthday
– They were filming the whole thing with flashlights on, and I had just woken up, so the lights were hurting my eyes.

I understand they probably meant well but it felt like my wishes were completely ignored. The gesture didn’t feel like it was for me especially since I wasn’t going to eat the cake anyway. I didn’t make a scene but I was visibly annoyed and withdrew. When they mentioned celebrating my birthday, I said it wasn’t even my birthday that day. A few of them were surprised, while others said they knew and were just celebrating early.

I later talked to my sibling about it and they think I was ungrateful and should have just eaten the cake and enjoyed the moment instead of being overly rigid. I feel like it’s reasonable to be upset when people ignore clearly stated boundaries even when they think they’re doing something nice. AITA?