\#AITAH for not wanting to go to my bfs family party and stay home to rest?
I’m a 22(f) I go to school full time during the week, and work 3rd shift at an urgent care on the weekends. My bf (22m) little brothers birthday party is tomorrow and he’s asking if I’ll be going. I get off work tonight at 2:30 am, my commute home is 25min so I get home at 3 am and in bed by 3:30. I have to wake up early to do homework and come back to work at 4:30 pm. I told him I’ll be to tired and I have my work to do. He gets bothered by my statement, more so annoyed that I work weekends and says it’s my fault because I want to be in school. (I love school btw, I complain cuz of the hw but I get that done!) and I’m not prepared for tomorrow because when I try to get as much rest as I can him and his daughter don’t respect my sleep, playing the tv loud, running in the room , yelling he gets upset when I tell them to calm down or go to the living room (I have no personal space to rest as I share a room with both of them, and she has her OWN room) I’m never like , allowed to ask for a quiet environment in the room I sleep in, that I pay half the rent for in our apartment. I just know this is going to start problems, but idk what to do or how to handle it if it does happen.