I 32(M) have been with my gf for 7 years. Her brother proposed to his partner in september of 2024. We knew he was planning on proposing for some time but he put it off several times. We respectfully waited as we knew he was planning to get engaged but we have since found out they arent planning on having the december 2028. That is such a long time and i dont want to wait that long and i have the perfect oppertunity to propose comming up. Im not sure if it will upset the brother and partner or her parents but i feel like 4 years is to long of a time to expect no one else to live their life. So WIBTA if i propose this year?