19f today my boyfriend was hanging out with a small group of his friends at one of their houses and I came along because we were gonna do stuff after and one of my boyfriends friends I know has JUST started going out with this girl I’m really good friends with. I’ll call him Jake.
The other day that friend was telling me she’s actually Jake’s first kiss and tomorrow they’ll have a free house and she is really excited to be his first… whatever they end up doing, plans non specific but something anyway. For context Jake’s still done nothing but kiss her.
But, Jake sprained his neck/shoulder same day this happened after this conversation. Jake’s sitting there telling us about how he can barely use his right side and he’s nothing to do. I joke to him that least he’s got plans tomorrow and he gives me a look and asks what did she tell me, then laughs kinda embarrassed and said he doesn’t think with what state he’s currently in there’ll be doing those plans.
My boyfriend already knew but Jake’s other friends asked what we were talking about and I explained everything and they laugh. I go back and say wait what do you mean you don’t think anything’s happening? She told me shes happy enough to do whatever you’s can and Jake said it’s more of a depends how he feels about it kinda thing.
the guys start asking Jake what he means. Jake goes well I can’t use my right arm for near anything and shouldn’t be in a position where my neck and shoulder on my right are doing stuff. His friends say sure that’s not great but he’s got a left arm and his injury won’t stop her being on top or giving him head.
Jake explains yeah still has the left but being honest he doesn’t know what he’s doing, he’s already nervous and even without this would probably be fumbling a bit. Then as for the other options he said receiving anything he doesn’t know how he’d feel about the fact his ability to give back is limited.
then for her being on top it isn’t what he imagined for the first and also thinks any position is “a lot” straight away regardless, he just doesn’t want to regret not just waiting a week or something. They all tell Jake shits not that deep it’s fun stop thinking that stuff basically and enjoy it.
I text her all this and she sends a jokey message for me to read out to him saying she agrees with his friends but also no pressure, don’t worry about it.
Jake IMMEDIATELY looks really scared and asks what I told her and I say basically the whole conversation. But I don’t see what’s wrong with that, Jake says he didn’t tell her any of that and all he said is the pain might be too bad we’ll see. Apparently he didn’t mention any of the feelings he described.
Jake and the entire table actually start telling me how wrong that is. I explain I think it’s better now actually she knows and she’s very chill about it so it was obviously the right thing to do. my boyfriend agrees with me but Jake and the other 2 REALLY thought I did something wrong.