I told my dad he wasn’t invited to my wedding because every time he gets drunk he ruins the vibe….he is always drunk through my whole life every major event he has been at has been ruined by drinking. Even after funerals with close family of ours he always seems to find liquor or bring it and then find problems and bring them
NTA. Get security to prevent him from coming.
NTA. At the age of about 8 or 9 I knew I’d never get married because I was embarrassed and humiliated at every social occasion by my dad’s drunkenness.
Nta nobody is entitled to your wedding but expect this to cut into the relationship
Thoughts on someone giving him non alcoholic alcohol and hope he doesn’t notice?
NTA…
NTA and its about as clear as it gets
NTA, just don’t tell him where and when it is or he may show up and ruin it anyway.
NTA I’d argue to give him one last chance but if it’s really a consistent problem then he probably shouldn’t go, especially if he hasn’t sworn off drinking.
NTA. This may be what he needs to wake up and get sober. Tell him to explore the site AA.org if he doesn’t understand your decision. It’s a family disease. Everyone gets hurt.
NTA. Being excluded from events is a natural consequence of problematic drinking.
As someone else suggested, hire security. You won’t be able to relax and enjoy your day if there’s a risk of him showing up anyway.