In the cigarette brake that our professor give for us i come back earlier than the professor and i see a group of my friends r talking. There is one misogynistic gym-bro guy who has super high ego and he still has a teenager mentality.
I heard him swearing to epstein, and it sounds ok but i live in turkey and in turkey the curse words r directly to the mother. And i said “don’t blame the mother, blame him”
He laughed and said “Aghh… women’s… Its his mothers fault cuz she raised him” And i get frustrated, i said “So all the crimes that man done r their mothers fault?” And i didn’t expect him to say “Yea of course, their mother had to raise them better”
I think he is trying to raige bait me (cuz this is so dumb to say) but i was still trying to argue anyways. At some point he said “If your mother had raised you well, you would be a good girl, raising your own child instead of being a slut at university and arguing with me.”
When he said that, i do something that i never do before in my life. I was heard that her father got pregnant a hooker from our university, and i said “if ur mom raised you well why is your dad gets pregnant a hooker which is 20 years younger than him?”
Btw, i’m in the one of the best university in turkey but his father is a professor here and he is studying with money. (In turkey, you don’t had to give money if u won the exam but he can’t won the exam so his father pays for him to get education lol)
Now, i feel guilty for saying that. Cuz i feel that was crossed the line but, at that moment i just think that somebody needs to stand up against him.
NTA glass houses and all that I suppose.
NTA. If anything, you weren’t mean enough.
NTA… he was saying vile shit that isn’t true. You clapped back with something that *is* true. Someone should shame him any time he opens his mouth about women. Maybe next time point out that his mother raised a misogynistic asshole with bad grades that needed his dad to cheat him into the university ahead of smarter students, and ask why he’s not being a better man who doesn’t shame her?
I don’t fully understand but NTA when humiliating a misogynist.
The clapback doesn’t follow its own logic, but I too would shoehorn that factoid in any way I could.
NTA. It’s the logical conclusion of the argument.
Wow. This guy sounds awful. NTA.
NTA
But you’re nicer than I would have been.
NTA, he fafo’d
NTA, you did the right thing, stop feeling guilty.
Honestly, you did what needed to be done sometimes you gotta drop truth bombs on those clowns to shut them up no regrets, fam!
NTA at all….