Feeling kind of crazy here. Im 28M, Been with my partner(28F)for almost seven years and this has always been something that comes up and I have no idea if I should feel like an asshole or be the one to apologize. Basically today we went out to celebrate valentines day, stopped at 3 places and I started to feel sick and sore. I deal with a bad anxiety disorder that exacerbates any pain or nausea I’m feeling tenfold. My partner knows this and gets frustrated sometimes but today felt especially bad because of the holiday. We both wanted to go out and celebrate and have fun- but I essentially cut it short because I started feeling bad- we work from home and really only have the opportunity to go out once a week and had to stay home the last three weeks so I know theres frustration with that aspect. My partner gave me the silent treatment the whole ride home, and put music on the aux about love problems. I feel sick physically and mentally and I just feel crazy like its my fault the date was ruined because I felt sick. I tried to tell my partner like “hey its not my fault I don’t feel well” and the response is just “you never feel well.” So am I the asshole here for ruining our date?