Hi everyone. After I graduated from college, my mom bought a house and pressured me to move in with her. I didn’t grow up living with her I lived with my dad but things seemed fine at first. I mostly keep to myself and pay all my own expenses, including food, insurance, and my car note; I try to stay out of the way.
However, she has recently started asking me for large, random sums of money anywhere from $700 to $1,000 at a time and says she will pay me back but never does . When I decline, she gets angry. She claims she can’t afford her house or even basic necessities like food. She is in major debt apparently. I would have no problem helping out here and there. but its always theses large amounts that come out of the blue that im not ready for.
AITA for not giving her money when she needs it