I met this girl a few months ago and we’ve become pretty close friends. However, my mom has met her a few times and said she noticed some things that felt a bit strange, like the way she touches me or how she behaves around me. My boyfriend also doesn’t seem to like her very much.
Sometimes she makes comments jokingly saying that I’m attractive or that she’s going to “steal me from my boyfriend.” I always assumed she was joking, but it has made things feel a little weird at times.
A few days ago we made plans to hang out the next day. But that morning my mom was really sick and got a last-minute doctor’s appointment to have an ultrasound, so I needed to go with her. I sent my friend a voice message apologizing and explaining that I had to cancel because I needed to accompany my mom.
After that, I also sent her a longer message telling her that I admire her a lot and that I’m always there to listen to her, because she had mentioned recently that she was feeling bad emotionally.
It’s been three days and she hasn’t responded at all. I’m starting to feel like she might be upset with me, but I’m not sure if I actually did something wrong by canceling.
Now I’m also wondering if her behavior has been a bit strange or controlling.
**AITA for canceling our plans to go with my mom to a medical appointment?**, we also have been trying to hang out previous times but she has been busy or i wasn’t feeling like going out 🙁