Me ,31 (F) and my husband 31 (M) got married 8 months ago in march and about 4 months in July into our marriage my husbands brother 28 (M) and his girlfriend 34 (F) got evicted from there house and they are going to stay at a hotel, they have 4 kids its important to know that only 1 of these 4 kids is my husbands brothers kid, 8 year old (M) he is autistic, now with that being said my husband and I have a big enough home we have plenty of room for his brothers family so we took them all in 4 kids 2 adults and there dog well call him K. its been about to months of them living with us and its been hell, the girlfriend (34) has 2 small children that she cheated on my brother in law and lied to him about them being his till they came out mixed (Brother in Law and Brother in laws Girlfriend both White) they are 4 (M) 3 (F) she has them only a few days a week and when do does all she does is sit on her phone and this kids are always getting into things a destroying things, my husband and I have not said anything to her about her kids. now comes September they are still living with us and the dog has been nothing but problems after problems, everyone know the do pees in the house and so we asked that the dog be put in the kennel AT NIGHT OR WHEN THEY ARE GONE so he is not peeing everywhere. Well that did not happen and now u have video proof the dog is peeing in the garage where ur sons brand new bed set is that cost u +$2,000 and u dont want the dog peeing on it so I text ur brother in law again letting him know that the dog peed in the garage and needs to go in kennel at night so he dont pee on my sons things or I would not be pretty if the dog pees on my sons things. I was met back with chill the fuck and shut the fuck up and fuck u im not putting my dog in the kennel , then when brother in law gets back home from taking his son to school he walks in the front door going off about how ur nothing but drama so I tell him he needs to leave and he proceed to push u out of the way and ur husband hears this and comes running and then brother in laws girlfriend comes up putting her hands on u so u defend ur self and then she puts her hands on ur husband so u defined him and that’s when the girlfriend (34) called the cops and u and ur husband went to jail.
its a mess of a story Ive got video and text message proof !!!!
You might want to check your municipality regarding tenancy laws.
I would not want this in my house one second longer but I don’t want to be forced to keep them because they have laws on their side and I unknowingly broke them.
This might be more that the sub can handle.
they had their things moved out before we got out of jail
Idk what that means, but if they want to leave let them!
we did
YTA
Maybe e. s. h. but it is hard to tell since you can’t apparently use paragraphs, or proper punctuation.
But anyone who wants to put a dog in a kennel every night is definitely an AH.
Why did you let them move in? Just kick them out.
we have 3 dogs and they all go in there kennels at night as to not have and accidents in the house. and when they would work and things my self and my kids would let the go out to go pee he was not allowed to roam free in the house as he attacked one of my dogs and bit my mothers thumb and I apologize for my grammar
Still makes you even more of an AH. You treat your own dogs that way? Most dogs I know can go 8 hours at night without peeing in the house unless there is some sort of medical issue.
ok thank u. so u would allow the dog to pee all over ur house and not say anything to them about that thank u
No they would never have been allowed into my house to begin with.
my husband and I was not putting our 8 year old autistic nephew in a hotel room for who knows how long
You can offer to watch the nephew if there’s a concern. Maybe even take custody, but you are under no obligation to take care of their whole family. They need to leave.
Esh. The dog is the least of your problems. They aren’t good houseguests in any way and it’s best they deal with their problems some other way. If they can’t handle taking care of their kid(s), child services will likely get involved and they may lose custody anyway.
Best suggestion is avoid the fight and just tell them the have to leave within whatever amount of time you’re comfortable. You can offer to strictly help with the nephew only but be prepared that they may not want to accept your help.
Clearly NTA. Your husband needs to kick his family out. This behavior is not ok. They are using you and now being aggressive when asking for simple things like not having a dog pee all over your house. Evict them now, they don’t deserve your courtesy.
they are moved out and we are not speaking to them at all. all this has turned criminal its a big mess and I did not have anyone to talk about it to so I turned here thank u.