There’s not much else to say, I opened a 1 litre bottle of brisk ice tea that has been in our apartment for about a week, It was full to about a CM above the label. Now she’s making me sleep on the couch and she says she can’t touch the drink because I touched it. Genuinely idk what I did wrong
YTA for drinking what isn’t yours. If you didn’t buy it, courtesy dictates that you ask the owner before you help yourself.
I’m asking this as a serious question but to couples normally buy groceries separately and get upset when their partner eats/drinks something they had. It was never specified that she was saving it or anything btw
Each relationship will have slightly different dynamics.
In my relationship, we don’t open each other’s treats without asking, but we don’t ask to eat some if it’s already open, unless it’s getting low.
“hey, do you mind if I have a cookie? There’s only 2 left”.
Whenever I buy food or drinks she helps herself (and I’m happy she does) i never thought we had the relationship where I had to ask to have a treat that she bought. I really love this girl and I don’t know what I did to upset her this much
Does your gf have OCD?
Maybe buy her a new one to apologize? It’s probably not actually a big deal, but she could be upset about something else. Or maybe she just really likes her tea?
I offered to get her a new one and she said no
Get her a new one buddy
Has she said anything about this before? Like telling you she doesn’t want to share? I’m just curious about context
You could’ve asked first but her making you sleep on the couch is pretty out of pocket
While there could be an argument that you were the AH for drinking the drink without asking, her extreme over reaction has me wanting to advise you to run.
Don’t take what’s not yours but her reaction is… a lot. Did she deal with food insecurity or anything? Seems like some else is at play