I(M23) was recently placed in a group for an assignment in uni. One of my group members , Jess(f22) is incredibly hard to work with. She bunks lectures, leaves me on read when I message her about her assignment and constantly complains that I don’t know what I’m talking about with regards to the assignment . Recently , she has been coming up with all sorts of excuses . Her bf dumped her, her dog was sick, mercury was in retrograde … You name it. At our last meet up to discuss the assignment , she kept complaining that she had the biggest workload and asked that we redistribute tasks. I lost my cool and went off on her. Calling her lazy and immature . I told her that I was going to email our lecturer and ask that she’s removed from the group. She started crying , and ran off. Not long after that everyone else left.When I got home, I saw a bunch of passive aggressive posts on her status about "toxic masculinity ruining her education" and "only God can judge her". I also got a bunch of messages , from people in the group and people who just know me and Jess, telling me I’m a controlling and unempathetic asshole. Now I’m second guessing if I overreacted because she sucks or if she’s overreacting to being called out. So reddit , am I the asshole?