AITA… My significant other 29/M and I 28/F have a 10 month old son. I get him up Monday – Saturday @ 7 am. We both work full time jobs. I work nights, he works a mornings. We agreed that he would get our son up on Sunday’s. But he hasn’t been consistent with doing with. So I asked him this past Saturday if he would be getting him up in the morning. He told me no, wants to be able to sleep in… well me too…
I also meal prep his breakfast, lunch, and dinner for the week. He’s told me in the past that he wouldn’t mind doing his own meal prep… so I asked him would he mind meal prep his own meals moving forward…
He said that I was doing tit for tat by asking that because I am upset he won’t get our son up. But I’m not sure i agree that this is tit for tat rather than just sharing the workload. Like if you don’t want to get our son up on Sunday’s and you don’t mind prepping your meals then we can trade those tasks..
We spoke to his mom about it and she also said this was tit for that. And now he’s saying i am unwilling to listen to other viewpoints because i have two people telling me that it is indeed tit for tat and I am firm on it not.
Would people consider this tit for tat?? Honestly I’m confused
NTA. If he wants to sleep in and make you do the work, he can make his own food like an adult who got plenty of sleep. He made a baby, surely he can make his own sandwiches.