I was on hinge one day and saw this chick I used to date for almost 3 years when I was a senior in high school. I hit her up wishing her well and she responded. She seemed uninterested in me yet patronizing when we dated in and after high school. We actually started talking sophomore year of high school but were on and off until senior year when we started dating. But I hit her up and she responded.
We started talking for a little bit. It’s been 3 years, even if shit hit the fan when we ended it’s nice to catch up and there’s a lot to catch up on. One problem though. I walked into this after seasons of change feeling completely different. why does she sound the exact same? Maybe even worse
It’s been a little over a week and half ago we started talking and she has only spoken to me *literally only in pet talk. I wasn’t okay with it in the first conversation when we reconnected and I’m not sure how I feel now. Im not sure if I’d be happy or mad if she’s initiated other relationships like this. I just want someone who’s honest with themselves.
What do you mean pet talk? Like talk about cats and dogs and birds and rabbits? I don’t understand what you mean.
No bro like “good boy” and “>_<“ shit idk look it up
If you don’t like talking to her, why are you bothering with it? You only been chatting for a week and already finding yourself annoyed,
Um cuz I’ve known her my entire life . This isn’t some Random hinge girl and I don’t think I should approach it that way
Edit : I’m looking for advice. Maybe it’s not “what should I do “ advice maybe it’s “what’s going on” advice.
Well, if she is calling you good boy n’stuff… That sounds like flirting to me.
But I am not sure what your vibe is because you already sound annoyed of her:
* Why does she sound the exact same? Maybe even worse
* I wasn’t okay with it in the first conversation when we reconnected and I’m not sure how I feel now. Im not sure if I’d be happy or mad if she’s initiated other relationships like this. I just want someone who’s honest with themselves.
* I just want someone who’s honest with themselves.
What are you looking for and what do you mean someone whose honest with themselves?