I will clarify what I mean when I say public place. I mean a library, coffee shop, and stores. I dont mean social places like bars or parties. Im talking about chilling and enjoy yourself and that is when it happens. And I dont mean just any attractive girl. I mean your type that is rare to find.
What would you do?
Edit: So I hear people saying that they wouldnt approach but guys its not bad to approach women in public lol. Let’s say it is a coffee shop. All you have to do is say "Hey, this is my first time, you look like a regular what should I get. Then just feel the vibes. No women is going to care that you did that. I actually have done that and a woman didnt care at all. In fact, she kept the convo going.
Or be bolder and say that "hey, you strike me as someone who is outgoing, how’s your day going. Then read the vibes. I dont believe a woman would care.
Luckily I’m not a dating man these days, but
Absolutely not. Women have made it abundantly clear over the last few years that they don’t want to be approached cold like that. I’d admire her beauty in passing and go on about my day.
If I’m in my right mind I’ll leave her alone, but I have abysmal impulse control and would probably talk to her
Sometimes I just compliment her, and that’s not really too bad. Only if I’m really not in control of myself will I ask her out
No, it’s not really the implied nature of those places. That’s my individual take on it anyway. I’m sure answers will vary.
Depends on what she’s doing and how she carries herself.
Like all I know about her is “wow she’s pretty” ? Absolutely not. I don’t know anything useful about her, I don’t know any subject I could talk about with her, I don’t even know if she’s single or if she’s even into men, and I’m probably not the only person to find her physically attractive. 99% chance I’ll just be yet another creep hitting in her and ruining her day.
This gets posted weekly I stg
Nope. If we eyed each other and approached each other… Than maybe that. but I don’t approach women out of nowhere.
Nope.
” I dont mean social places like bars or parties.”
Those were my primary go to places for finding dating/relationship/hookup opportunities.
At least in those venues along with online dating apps you know the women *expect to be approached*.
Odds are I would not make a *cold approach* to a woman unless I felt she was flirting with me in some way.
At minimum there would have to be some eye contact and a warm smile exchanged before I’d approach her.
When I was single, I put most of my dating efforts in places where others were looking to meet and date.
Nope, the odds just aren’t in my favor.
No, I understood it was sexual harassment to approach women I didn’t know in public.
Absolutely not. I asked a girl about her Metallica shirt and she acted like I was trying to sleep with her. Definitely not worth it.
Generally, no.
Only exception would be if we naturally interacted and the opportunity presented itself.
No.
Enough angry women online told men in general not to.
Enough pain from previous attempts.
She’s probably not single. If she was single there are apps for that.
She could approach me and hasn’t done so.
The 10,000 women in my Tinder radius have deemed me only worthy of attention if I will potentially marry them (i.e. I am not sufficiently attractive for an authentic connection and they need to be compensated). So I have come to assume I am not good enough.