it’s basically men don’t marry when they meet the love of their life they marry when they decide they’re ready to get married and then just marry the first or second girl after he decides that????
it’s basically men don’t marry when they meet the love of their life they marry when they decide they’re ready to get married and then just marry the first or second girl after he decides that????
what the fk did i just read?
Mental gymnastic some women use to explain why a man didn’t marry them, but a better candidate that comes afterwards.
I think there’s a bit of truth to it but it’s not as simple as any woman will do once he’s ready.
A lot of guys don’t start thinking about long term commitment until they feel stable enough career, money, emotional maturity whatever. When that switch flips they take relationships more seriously. But most men I know still need to actually like and connect with the person they choose.
So yeah timing matters but compatibility still matters too. It’s more about being ready and meeting someone who fits not just grabbing the next person who walks by.
Don’t get the analogy but yes I would say that’s true. Most tend to marry/remarry on the rebound.
No? every man and every relationship is different.
I can’t speak for every man but…no. not true. We marry someone we love, who is also marriage material, or at least I do. We choose who we marry, not who we love.
I think this is just cope for the women that date a man for years but he doesn’t propose because she not wife material. Then they break up because there’s not ring but his next gf is wife material so he proposed to her. She thinks “oh he actually loves me more and I’m better than her but he just wasn’t ready with me”
Haha, this, 100%
This right here. This is the reality of it.
No, I don’t think so. I would advise against holding views toward men (or any group that you aren’t a part of) that are this reductive and insulting. It’s not going to improve your interactions with them.
Not at all. It’s much more applicable to women.
When the biological clock starts ticking they will just pick a man.
The average man receives close to 0 female attention so he naturally accepts.
Taxi light theory is only applicable to the top 5-10% of men
There’s no intrinsic value to being married to any man I know. Marriage is the consequence of finding the right one, not the end unto itself.
My wife is definitely the love of my life, by far. I would absolutely give my life for her
Sorry to be so blunt, but this “theory” is ridiculous and demonstrates a complete misunderstanding of (most) men’s psychology.
You need to understand 2 fundamental truths.
1. Men are not choosy about who they will sleep with (or even date, if I’m honest. )
2. Men are VERY particular about who they’ll marry, and when (or at least the non-losers are). If we’re going to tie ourselves to one woman potentially for life she’d better be worth it.
As others have said, your “theory” sounds like a blatant cope, I’m afraid.