My friends borrow my money a lot it’s not like they don’t pay me back they do but it’s like atleast a 2 month interval , they also cancel a lot so when I booked a movie they cancelled so I had to refund it, refunding makes me lose money because of convenience fee but then they agreed again so I had to book again when I cancelled again I made them pay memoret than they owed me both the convenience fee and the ticket fee but I already found new people to go with so I already collected money from the people I was supposed to go with and the people I m going with
Yes
You need new friends and a backbone to say no
😅 I actually like your method of recouping losses. NTA. (Ok, technically YTA but…)
ESH
NTA. You’re not scamming them. You’re charging them YOUR convenience fee.
NTA, but stop lending money. Seriously.
You need punctuation in your life. And new friends.
NTA, you are charging them for your inconvenience fees.
YTA. It’s not fair to punish them for your poor decision to continue to trust these people, when they have shown you over and over again that that don’t respect you, your time, or your money. Start saying no to borrowing, stop booking things and paying up front, and find better friends. Good friends don’t do this kind of stuff. You deserve better.
NTA
This isn’t a scam. You aren’t over chatging your friends. Youre making tbem pay the convenience fees you are charged when they cancel.
You need 3 things. 1) to be unapologetic when advocating for yourself, 2) new friends and 3) proper punctuation. NTA
God yes to 3!
Maybe just get new friends instead
Why do so many people on Reddit refuse to use periods? YTA.