It doesn’t have to be extreme, but I do find myself enjoying playing the submissive role.
I think though that it makes me seek to annoy men I fancy because I like to get a reaction from them.
Have any women tried to purposefully annoy you to get a rise out of you? Did you ever sleep with any of these women, or were they just so annoying you ignored them?
I’ve not dated for two years (by choice) and I think it’s messed up my brain and now I’m always horny.
I feel it’s much more common for men to want to be dominated than for men to like to dominate. Would you say that’s correct?
I think it’s very broad in the breakdown of what men like in terms of being submissive or dominant, including men who can switch between both roles.
I’d also be very careful about the “bratty” role in terms of getting a rise out of a man because that toes the line of just becoming annoying and unpleasant to be around. Obviously if you and your partner have had experience and conversations, have at it, but trying to annoy your partner to get a rise out of them quickly just becomes intolerable.
Deliberately annoying the men you fancy is called being a brat. It’s something a lot of us respond to. If you enjoy a good spanking, keep it up.
Haha, yes please! Thanks!
No, most men want a submissive woman. No man wants an annoying woman though and being annoying is not going to get you that spanking.
That is exactly how my wife gets a spanking
Just sticking to your main question – I don’t think it’s rare to find, but maybe it’s a bit rarer with the younger generation?
I thought most men liked to be the dominant but maybe that’s just me.
I don’t know if tried both, I think getting dominated by a woman is better personally. Face sitting is awesome
Yes I like to be dominate in bed but do annoy your man thinking it’ll make him hate fuck you just tell him you’re into it
More men like dominating, more men in here like being dominated
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I love domination play. Slapping, biting, hair pulling, spanking. If both parties look like they’ve been in a fight but have smiles on their face, job well done.
Very hard to find exclusive/non-poly partners for it, though. At least in my experience.
You should definitely look into kinks. What you describe as being “submissive but annoying” might fall in the “brat” dom/sub subcategory, where you are submissive but a bit of a brat about it. It works for some but for others it’s just a drain. You do still have to be submissive in the end, and you can’t _always_ do it. ie: no one wants to have to fight you over every little thing (though I’m sure you’ll find someone that says, “hey dude, that’s me, fight me over everything!”)
There’s a ton of resources about this online, so you can read up on it and figure out how these dynamics usually work (especially now that you have the terms to look up). I’ll note that being dom/sub isn’t for everyone and there’s a lot of misconceptions about it. Some people think being a dom is just about getting to do whatever you want, but as a dom in some ways you’re responsible for the sub’s happiness, and so you’re making the sub do things that will meet their needs, fulfill them, and make them happy, not just whatever you feel like. As a sub, it requires a lot more trust in your dom than you might expect, because you are relying on them to completely fulfill your needs. This is all within the bounds of the relationship and where you want the dom/sub dynamic to play out. For the relationship to work in this dynamic you need both to be in that mindset and clear communication, like all relationships, it requires continual and intentional effort.
If you’re just being annoying to be annoying, I expect that won’t work out.
I do. I don’t think it’s a kink. I love pulling their hair, growling and telling them to submit to me fully. They love it
From my experience, it is unnecessary to annoy men to make them dominant in bed. Just be feminine, speak with a softer tone and you’ll get what you want 😁