So I ‘F 21’ and my gf ‘F 23’ have been in a relationship since the 18 months now, and last month she told me that ever since we got in a relationship she felt like she’s not worthy of me, and after us moving in (we were in ldr for around 9 months) the feeling has only ever expanded and reached to a point from where it can’t come back, she apologized for not communicating this timely, I always adapted and tried to adjust to understanding her communication patterns and everything else that came between us, she gets distant I get uneasy , I learnt to be patient overtime, so initially she used to get mad at me over small stuff or just randomly got upset and it came out on me, directly or indirectly, but for the past few months I thought we were doing way better, but suddenly she tells me she doesn’t see it the same way
Also another reason she gave was because she thinks she might have a lesser libido than me, we haven’t been as sexually active as before and I asked her about it once or twice but she took the question in another way and instead of helping me communicate, got distant and convinced herself how she’s restricting me and how she’s unworthy of me, I thought I could try to talk to her about what we’re in her cz it seems like she’s made the decision to not continue this post January, I know she’s not communicative and if we let go this time, we’ll never get back together and that scares me, but if there’s any chance I can communicate and tell her to give us another shot I would really like that , please give me some advice on this situation, she really does love me and I love her too
She’s telling you that you’re not well matched. It sounds as if she’s right. Even if she were wrong, what good would that do you, as long as she feels that way?