so recently i bought a dog 3 weeks at uni, i have my own apartment and me, my cousin and another friend bought this dog. at first we were like let’s go see him we didn’t think we’d actually buy him but his health was in such a bad state we bought him and took care of him and now he’s a normal puppy, in those 3 weeks we trained him and did everything with him but my parents didn’t know i had a dog at all. i told my brothers (younger) and they said they want to help and that it’s fine and even my friends said they’d help take care of him he’s a really well behaved puppy because we’ve spent 3 weeks training him everyday. now yesterday i brought him home and my mom lost her shit she’s so mad yelling at everyone and just talking shit about me with her sister and everyone that i did this and how im a terrible kid mind you im 19 paying for my own school and rent never asking them for a dime in terms of that. now she wants me to get rid of the puppy and my dad is very neutral of course hes upset i brought the puppy without telling him but hes not losing his shit. the problem with this is no one wants to get rid of him but my parents “reasoning” is that me and my brother 19 and 18 will be out the house for uni and college. i have 5 months off almost cuz im doing a co op term near my house and my brother has school off for almost 6 months as well so thats not even a problem my moms just being a bitch to everyone and is just so upset about the situation for no reason at all and wants the dog gone and idk what to do
Info did you keep this dog at your apartment that you pay for or did you bring it to your parents home because one makes you not an asshole the other makes you an asshole.
1) This is incredibly hard to read. Run-on sentences, no paragraph breaks, not capitalizing properly.. and really not being able to write your story out coherently. You need to really work on how you communicate, and that includes understanding what transitions between thoughts do. We can’t follow you in your own mind.
2) What do you mean you brought him home if you have your own apartment? Is your plan to leave the dog at your parents’ home instead of at your apartment? If that was your plan, of course your mom’s pissed off at you.
Thats why I asked for info because like at his own home hes golden but if her brought the dog into theirs even temporarily hes an asshole.
Hard agree on the readability and coherence.
YTA. You brought an animal to your mom’s house and didn’t even ask if it was ok?
YTA because if I understand correctly, you brought the dog to your parents house. You don’t bring animals to someone’s home without their permission.
YTA. Main character syndrome.
Yta for bringing an animal to someone’s house without asking first. It’s rude.
NTA for getting a dog. If you don’t live at home, they can’t tell you what to do in YOUR HOME.
LOL,
YTA and your mom is tired of dealing with your shit. She thought maybe things would lighten up since you are getting older and away at college… WRONG….. WRONG.
It’s unclear but I’m confident in saying that they own this house, right? You were away at college and came back the house they own for an internship. You unilaterally decided to get a pet, a puppy, without asking or even giving them a heads up.
Even if you are paying rent at your own place or wherever, unless previously authorized, you still need to ask before getting a pet.
I agree with others regarding the the lack of coherence and clarity. Are you saying that you brought a puppy into your parents’ home without their knowledge or permission?
YTA for this stream of consciousness wall of text. Use paragraphs! And YTA for not asking permission. Not your house means asking permission. Even if you do everything it’s rude to take a pet without asking.
I’m confused is the dog staying at your parents house or your apartment like I understand them being upset about you brining the dog to their house without telling them ahead of time. But if you have your own apartment the dog shouldn’t really affect them. This whole story was hard to follow.
YTA times 2. 1) For being in college, yet being unable to use proper sentence structure, punctuation and paragraphs. 2) Because you don’t get an animal and bring it to someone’s home without their permission. 3 weeks of training does not make a perfect puppy.
Big YTA.
You clearly knew what your mom would think, but did it anyway, and then you turn around and make your mom out to be the bad guy. Who actually owns this dog anyway? Who buys a dog with roommates? You need to grow tf up. You aren’t ready for pet ownership.