Am I insane?
Hey so I’m very confused and don’t know where to turn, I F20 and my bf(xbf?)M21 have been in a long distance relationship for a bit over a year. It wasn’t always long distance he just had to move for family reasons. Anywho it’s all been great we talk through issue and become closer, it seemed picture perfect besides the distance. Now to what brings me here for background reasons I will add that recently he’s been a bit distant, not answering as much, saying he’s “too busy” and got “too much on his plate”. Which I totally understand he’s busy with work and building a life as I am too. Fast forward to last night we talked basically like normal all day until he got off work, he turned his location off and didn’t answer. Hour goes by he said his coworker got into a car accident (he was okay tho) and he had to go pick him up and he was going to stay at my bfs place and with that my bf said I’ll talk soon. I go on with my night as normal but have an off feeling, I try my best to sleep and eventually I do. Now to present I wake up blocked on EVERYTHING! I’m honestly still in disbelief as it seemed like everything was good. I sent him messages asking what’s up and what’s going on (on an account I noticed he didn’t block) he then blocked me on there.
It’s a stupid way to break up with someone but that’s what’s happened here. At least you can walk away with the moral high ground knowing that he was too chicken to communicate with you on this.
Thank you that’s why I’ve been trying to tell myself. I feel like I’ve just been discarded. I’m going through everything and every conversation to see what I could have done wrong?
jfc yeah, faking a car accident or using it as a segway into a breakup to gain emotional sympathy from you while playing on your feelings for him is pure evil. i’m sorry that you experienced this.
better luck with the next one.
Thank you for the kind words it helps a lot. Genuinely he also knew about my abandonment trauma so that makes it a whole lot worse.
just a shit man