AITA for reacting big when my sister and mother laugh at me wearing a “hideous earing”?

I bought an earing in our school I thought it looks cute and I’m so confident wearing them, then I walk in our house then they start laughing, I was asking them why? But the keep laughing, like laughing loud, I was starting to ask my self, because I didn’t do anything weird I just walk in the room and put my heels on our shoe rack, so I ask them again, then they told me that "what kind of style was that?" They’re laughing loud and has called me a lots of things that I didn’t wanna repeat anymore.

I started crying because who wouldn’t, I feel so f*king insecure about that time and I feel like I look like a shit when I look at the mirror, then when I cry they told me that why I’m crying and I told them they’re making me feel insecure, and then they start laughing and say that that’s just the way WE joke to each other, I didn’t have anything that I remember that I say or to make them feel insecure, I told them do I look like I’m laughing because I clearly wasn’t and it’s not a joke if the person your making fun isn’t laughing, my mother ask me what’s my problem I answer right away BOTH OF YOU!, then they are trying to gaslight me that’s it’s really just a joke and I’m taking things too far. AITA??