For context, we have a rule that one person clean dishes and then it’s another one turn. It worked for us for 2 years. Recently my roommate found a new job and had less time, but every morning she had 4-5h of free time before her work. It was her turn this time and the dishes pile up for almost whole week. I (20F) wasn’t annoyed since she had new job, but it was starting to smell. On day 6 she tried to clean some, but woke up late and left more then half of it still dirty. She said it will be clean later so I didn’t said anything. It was left dirty again for 3 days before she finally clean it yesterday (90% of it, there wasn’t any space left for more to dry).
When I was leaving today she said in ironic tone „I cleaned the dishes so now you should” implying like I don’t know it’s my turn and it’s my fault that it was sitting there to long.
I need to add for those 3 days I still didn’t had 80% of the stuff to cook so I add like 2 plates and reuse the dirty pan (clean it 3 times and last time put it in sink).
This comment made me pretty angry as I go to my hometown today and nothing in that sink since yesterday is mine despite my one bowl I used today so I said „then you should clean it faster”. Now there is a tension between us and I started to doubt if I should just accept that comment?