This guy(25) followed me on TikTok, and I(18)mooted him and we hadn’t talked, but he posted a picture of himself with his shirt lifted(he’s a gym guy). I joked and said “put yo damn shirt down” and he took it seriously and started getting upset. I told him I was kidding and he kept going on about how mean that was. I gave short, random answers(mostly just stupid reaction pictures) and I told him that I was just kidding and he kept on so I simply deleted the chat and left him on delivered. The next day he texts again just “ggs” I responded with question marks and he said “can’t read?”. I said verbatim “I expressed I was kidding, you remained unmoved of your opinion that I hated you. I’m not gonna beg you to believe me” he said it didn’t seem like I was joking. I feel like saying “put yo shirt down” and telling him I was just joking around would pass as me clearly joking. I told him he was beating a dead horse by continuing to text me. He told me to try saying something nice, I responded with a stupid reaction picture and said “I’m not one for kind words” he asked if I could make an exception and asked if my ego was too big. I said “no I’m just a bitch, gotta keep up the brand”, another joke. I’ve been branded as a ray of sunshine and whimsical, and in my tiktoks I feel that message is conveyed. He said “just block me ion need no bitch moot”. I sent a picture of a rabbid from the cartoon rabbids invasion holding flowers and said “block button goes both ways”. He insisted I block him bc I said I was a bitch. He told me to block him five times when I was just sending insanely unserious and silly reaction pictures. I eventually said “I don’t block people I feel too mean. Just stop texting me if you don’t wanna text me”. He said “U wont block ppl but you’ll be bitchy towards them n be rude?” when I was really only sending reaction pictures and explaining stuff to him. I said “I joked, you got mad, I expressed it was a joke, you continued to be mad, I stopped texting, you texted again to keep conversation, I explained I was kidding, you kept texting, you told me to block you 5 times. If I’m so bitchy and rude why are you so persistent on texting me? You can simply not text me”. He said he “sssnt” sure I was kidding and he was telling me to block him because I was being weird. I said “I’m not even being bitchy 😭 I made a joke and you made an ordeal over me hating you after I even said it was a joke. If I’m being weird simply block me, it works both ways. You’re continuously texting me to block you even after I said I don’t block people, if it matters that much you can just block me.” He hasn’t texted back. I know I could’ve not texted him back but I felt bad that he was so dead set that I actually hated him. I felt like I was trying to calm down a child but I would’ve felt bad not atleast trying to explain myself. Am I in the wrong here? Was I actually being an asshole in the situation?
nah u chill boa
ESH. Y’all are both so childish.
Have you heard about paragraphs?
Are you 15 or something? Why are you sending random reaction images instead of just apologising for making a bad joke? YTA.
YTA
Info: What is a moot? This seems pretty silly to me imo but I assume you are both very young
Mutuals, like if you you both follow each other, he’s in his mid 20s and I’m 18
ESH It can be tough to convey a joke through text, might be best to stick to “if you’ve got nothing nice to say..say nothing.”
Arguing with strangers is stupid….
YTA. Also, paragraphs!