Found out that I guy I recently started hanging out with more had been seeing another girl for over a month. He told me he wasn’t using dating apps or hanging out with anyone else and mentioned us officially dating when we hung out Saturday 2 days ago.
Come to find out, he was with the other girl that morning- afternoon then had me come over right after she left. Thankfully all we had done is make out, but he hadn’t done anything with the other girl. She and I exchanged the stories he had been feeding us. I blocked him on everything and said she could be with him if she wanted. She told him she knew about me and sent him text screenshots I sent her from him. He freaked out on her and called her every name in the book and then figured out other ways to contact me around the block.
He has been calling me nonstop, sending messages on ig from different accounts saying horrible things. I’ll figure out how to keep blocking him but I just don’t get why he is being so aggressive and adamant to get through if he wasn’t really interested in the first place. Is this how some people react when they get caught? I mean he didn’t even really get “caught” as we weren’t in a relationship so i don’t understand why there is so much animosity.
He is crazy and can’t regulate his own emotions. Be thankful you got to see this now before things got serious between you to. Don’t have anymore contact with him or you could end up on a true crime series on Netflix
Yes I’m very thankful. He’s blocked everywhere
Because he is an emotionally stunted child who didn’t get his way. (At best. A narcissistic nightmare at worst.)
He is mad that you cost him two flings.
He didn’t want to be rejected. He was playing you and didn’t like that he got caught and you cut him off.
Don’t question why. Just run. Trust me.
some people are just crazy and flip out when they are rejected.
young people… yikes. there is no logic to it. keep blocking, he’ll get bored. cheers
He’s 39, about to be 40 😑
well you’ve got yourself a proper psycho then… put some distance asap
Sounds like you dodged a bullet. He seems very immatur.
Sounds like classic guilt-blame cycle, making you the villain so he can feel less guilty.
Or could be narcissistic and/or antisocial traits.
Might be anger masking his fear and the anger is driving the actions. The actions would be proportionate to his fear and not to anything you said or did.
Narcs hate being exposed and they get triggered when the disposal is done to them first and they weren’t able to get what they wanted beforehand and do their damage first.
It’s great that you were protected and found out so early on and even better, that he exposed his true colors without you even trying.
That way he can’t hoover, and he doesn’t even have access to you.
He won’t be able to manipulate you in the future because he bombed the whole village and you had front row viewing.