Do men ever change their tastes? My husband and I have been together for 21 years (since we were 18) I didn’t used to have an issue with porn but after I got pregnant with our first daughter and caught him getting off to teen porn it really disgusted me to the point I asked for no more porn. He said he has stopped watching it, which I believe. He has no social media either. it’s been 5 years and as I approach 40 I can’t help but think he still finds them more attractive. Can this change? We have 2 daughters now. He is a wonderful husband and father but anytime I see a scantily dressed young woman I cringe 😬 I know this is a me issue to deal with.
Trying to police what he consumes as an adult ain’t gonna help nothing. I know that much. He taste probably didn’t change.
It’s not about the people in the porn, it’s not about what they look like, it’s about what they do and the enthusiasm they do it with.
I mean it’s a little about the people in the porn.
nobody can definitively answer these questions about your husband. if you aren’t able to have a productive conversation about it together then you should go to couples therapy.
Sometimes you feel like eating Mexican. Sometimes Indian. Sometimes Chinese.
What is the charge? Eating a meal? A succulent Chinese meal?
You already said it’s a you issue to deal with. Can I suggest therapy? Wtf are we supposed to say if you already know the answer and are just too stubborn to let go?
Do you masturbate to 40 year old men who are tired and slightly overweight? Answers probably no.
Let the man jerk off in peace. It’s not like it’s weird for a man to be attracted to young, pretty women.
Teen is just a porn category that basically returns ‘under 30 and not saggy’. Not sure how you swing that to mean he’s into his own daughters.
lol exactly
Research suggests men in general find women aged 18-22 as the most attractive.
Absolutely.
As times goes on, a mans taste can change based on where he is in life.
The same can apply to women also.
Cheers 🍷
It takes something drastic or traumatic.
And I will add. What a guy likes in porn isn’t necessarily what he likes in real life. Porn is sounds and images and fantasy. Reality is all five senses and have personality, intelligence, and emotion.
Now for the traumatic. I used to like big women. My wife was a big, American, Caucasian woman. She seriously could have been a linebacker. By the end of the marriage, she was emotionally, verbally, and physically abusive. Since then, I just can’t date that. It actually nauseates me. I look for tiny, non-Caucasian, even foreign women. My last girlfriend was a 100 lb Korean.
He’s remembering what it was like when he and you were 18
Identical situation here… i’m 38, together for 21.
I started at some 15, same as your guy.
I still like the same identical videos, but also added milfs and whatnot. Preggos even.
Your taste doesn’t change, it expands.