My oldest child (19) has been living back home for about a year and a half. In that time they haven’t found a job, contribute nothing to the house financially and do minimal housework. We did a room swap when they moved in and 2 younger children (7&8) sleep in our front room, which is no longer working. They need a bedroom and when discussing this with my 19 y/o they refused to move out the room. So I said they’ll have to move out, AITA?
Yta! What life skills have you taught your 19 yo??? I am guessing that you have not taught them anything. Otherwise, they would either be in school or working
They’re 19 and “moved in” a year and a half ago? There’s so obviously a looot of context missing.
That’s what I was thinking. They’re definitely leaving out a lot of details
Maybe OP knows OP is YTA. so he/she left out the details. Anyways OP is YTA in my eye
YTA how did this work 2 years ago? They fit 2 years ago, left for half a year, and now there is a problem?
YTA. What do you mean living back home for about a year? Did you not provide them stability growing up and now want to point the finger at them because you didn’t parent?