I share a room with a roommate. We don’t share a bathroom, but we do share things like door handles, light switches, and other commonly touched surfaces.
I noticed that after using the toilet for a bowel movement, she washes her hands with only water and doesn’t use soap. I later asked her that too and she agreed she doesn’t !!!
After that, she touches shared surfaces and sometimes my belongings.
Because we live in the same space and touch the same things, I asked her if she could please use soap after using the toilet.
I also have OCD which leads to increased discomfort even though I know it might be disgusting for everyone equally.
Edit : She didn’t even have a hand wash so I gave her my new hand wash (she will pay for it ) and yeah as of now, i am just gonna change my bedsheet and disinfect the switches ughh
And yes, I am reminding her everytime and she looks cooperative to me but I am gonna shift my bed away bcs I can’t!!!!!!!
NTA
Not using soap is disgusting