Im rarely on Reddit, but I have been listening to lots of reddit stories lately, so I found out why not post this. I go to a special school for people that need extra help or want to take high school again at an older age because they didn’t make it the first round.
So in the first week of the school year I (m17) got to know L(f17) and she met A (f19) so there is a 2 year age gap between us and A. Me and L started spending a lot of time together after school and got real close, and to a point where it was awkward when we was with A because she is super shy and quiet, and it doesn’t match my and L energy. At the start we tried to include A but she always was so quiet, we always had to ask her 5 times what because of not hearing her, and it was always small close comments so it was hard to talk to her, she also would be on her phone, so for the past months or so we haven’t asked her to join us in the break between classes because we both feel bad when we keep talking and she just Follow completely quiet, but now I feel bad when I see her sitting alone. My mom says it is her job to talk with people, but idk, I just feel bad that she might be feeling alone.
AITA if so what can I do? I don’t want to exclude her, but she just doesn’t match the energy or our interests