AITA for being upset as someone who’s been hoping my relationship would end with my partner

AITA for being upset there’s several people involved delicious say the friend is called Chad me and my boyfriend have been having some issues but we always talk the problems out and Chad has been upset lately because of him losing his relationship with his ex. Chad and his ex broke up 2 1/2 years ago. and ever since then, Chad has been very distractive towards himself and others me and my partner have been there for Chad for all the hard times Chad’s been having. i’ve been there for Chad very much so even when they came out as trans. I supported Chad through all their hard times and also has my boyfriend, but Chad has been jealous of our relationship and I had no idea neither had my boyfriend and wishing harm upon me and my partner. And so Chad thought I would sign with him when he baited my partner to say something, even though my partner didn’t take the bait and Chad’s been scheming on how they break up me and my partner me and my partner been together for eight years and we never judge each other‘s opinions. We may not like each other‘s opinions about certain things, but we always let it go, and so Chad always hated the fact that we loved each other that much. I found this out the other night and I’m feeling quite hurt and vulnerable. I need some clarity because I’m worried that Chad is going to keep spreading more problems and I was wondering what I’d be able to asshole to send the receipts to our friend groups about what Chad talks about and how much Chad’s been hurting everyone?

14 thoughts on “AITA for being upset as someone who’s been hoping my relationship would end with my partner”
  1. Please use more punctuation and read over what you wrote before hitting “post.” This is very hard to understand. 

  2. I am not sure what you are saying here but I’ll try.

    You and your boyfriend are friends with a trans person called Chad. You feel that Chad has been trying to break you and you boyfriend up by saying and/or texting inaccurate information. You want to know if you should text screenshots to mutual friends about how Chad has been treating you and your boyfriend because you are concerned they will believe Chad’s lies.

    Yes, if Chad has been lying about events then your mutual friends should know.

  3. This is hard to understand but if Chad is against your relationship, it’s simple, stop talking to them. They aren’t your friend. Stop being upset and stop talking to them.

  4. You’re upset cause Chad is trying to break you and your partner up? Chad and his ex broke up 2 1/2 years ago, and he’s still upset about it? Don’t send anything to anyone. It’s time to stop being friends with Chad.

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