28(m) After a 3 1/2 yr Relationship
Hey all, so here is the whole story, I need to know if I’m justified or being the bad guy here. Fresh out of a 3 1/2 year relationship. At first for the first years we were truck driving together, during this time there were no issues as it was just she and I, and the road. However after we stopped and got a place, every day when I got home from work all I would hear about is her new guy friend, how great he is and how she see’s him as closer to her than her own blood brothers (who no longer talk to her.) This guy shows up to her graduation for the class she took with flowers and chocolates, I’d get home from work and she’d be either on the phone with him or discord watching movies with him while I would have to go out of my way to actively vie for attention during these stints, and post break up she is sleeping over at his place the day of us moving out of our apartment that we had together. Another thing that had happened that I thought was wild, is that she had hopped into a new relationship 2 weeks after we broke up from our 3 1/2 year relationship with a guy that she met online while we were still together. Meanwhile, she’s over here painting me as the bad guy, acting like I’m the problem due to me both threatening to shut off and take back her phone, which I pay for, and threatening to evict her. What do yall think? Am I justified or are the breakup feels jading my judgement?
ESH because you may or may not have a legal right to take take her phone (if it was a gift/registered in her name) nor kick her out if the apartment (if she’s on a lease/rental agreement). You honestly shouldn’t waste your time being spiteful and need to focus on how to untangle your lives. Engaging in unnecessary fights will just cause you further headaches.