Hey there! So I am a carer for my disabled partner. We live in the uk. I started driving lessons back in late November 2025. I went with a company that had good reviews. There’s only one instructor in my area. I have been paying £380 for 10 hours of driving at a time. And have paid this 3x now. My instructor is a great guy. He’s kind and funny. Back in December his mum passed away and he cancelled a few lessons which was completely understandable. But ever since then he cancels multiple lessons of mine a week. It’s always something new. One day he’s sick. The next it’s his mums memorial. The next it’s that he has a headache. The next it’s that he has obligations with his kids. I’m not being funny but why put lessons up on days where you know you can’t deal with them (such as his mums memorial). He always cancels an hour before each lesson too. We also went from 2 hour lessons to 1 1/2 and now 1 hour lessons. He already owes me an hour and a half of my lessons to be refunded back on to my driving app. They eventually get refunded but it takes ages. I’ve tried emailing the company but they essentially said that he’s the only instructor in the area. I’m a very understanding person so I’ve never brought it up in a confronting way however I’ve mentioned it gently and nothing seems to change. AITA for being angry that he is constantly cancelling? I’m trying to do intensive driving because we need the car so I can get my partner to urgent appointments at the hospital and doctors without issue. He also knows this. One more thing is that he’s incredibly forgetful. I’m on hour 22 now and we are meant to be doing reversing in my next lesson (the lesson SHOULD have been today but he cancelled…again). But he didn’t even realise we haven’t done reversing yet. So AITA? And if I am / am not what can I do in this situation?