I 21f and my bf 20m moved in together about 6 months ago we are both virgins, the only reason we move in together (sleep in separate rooms) is he was in a bad living situation and I was stable. so the problem is, every month my sister questions me about if we have done anything etc. well she started going to my mom and filling her head full of stuff about my bf, he’s using me for money, a place to stay, and is a bad guy, what they don’t see is he is paying for my car insurance. he buys half the food. he bring me coffee on all my early morning work shifts. be buys me stuffed animals just because. he listens to me when I have a bad day. he wants to get my whole family valentines day gifts. and so much more, my mom talked to me about her worrys that my sister told her, she counted my pads and said I was using to many. she went though my room. she’s spreading rumors about my bf. me and my mom talked I cleared it up with her, and went to talk to my sis told her to please stop saying that stuff because it’s not true and to please mind her own business and if she is worried talk to me not everyone else, she got mad started yelling at me saying he’s a jury (she used other words) I left though it was over, apparently the next day she told my mom I’m pregnant because I have periods problems (I have a miss shaped ovary, that makes me have really bad periods and split periods where I stop for a few days and then have another one) and she is taking it as I’m pregnant I knew I wasn’t and took a test to prove it. and that made her even more mad, to the point she’s not really talking to me and just bad mouthing me and my bf. so AITA for thinking she has gone to far and telling her to mind her own business?
INFO: Too many? Wouldn’t you use fewer pads, or stop using them, if you were pregnant?
NTA, but why are you even letting your sister into your home anymore? Enjoy the time she is not talking to you, she sounds exhausting!
NTA but holy crap this is so hard to read because you use NO punctuation and this giant run on sentence does not make just a whole lot of sense. Please figure out some comas and periods.
That part. I stopped reading and came to the comments
Can you edit this post to include periods at the end of sentences. I can’t read it the way it’s written.
Oh, come on.
Have you never heard of punctuation?
Expecting people to slog through this wall of run-on sentences is ridiculous.
Try again with paragraph breaks and punctuation.
Y T A for posting this as is.
INFO: do you live with your sister?
If not, don’t let her in your house. At all. Ever.
Stop justifying and providing “proof” you’re not pregnant. Just roll your eyes or laugh every time it’s mentioned. “Not this ridiculousness again.” Change the subject. Walk away if they continue.
Stop entertaining them.
PLEASE learn to use punctuation.
Not many people are going to read this if you aren’t going to at least use full stops.
This worm of words is unreadable.
NTA. The pads have nothing to do with anything. Its not like you could time conception with your available pads. Either way, you would have pads in anticipation of your period and the pregnancy would result in you not using them.
This pad counting is a complete red herring of silliness.
Yes, she is an asshole to spread rumors bout you being pregnant, that she arrived to this rumor via foolish means doesn’t change that.
Your sister needs to not have access to your home. And she seems to be not very intelligent about biology.
I have no idea what this was supposed to mean: “yelling at me saying he’s a jury.” A jury?
By this point, your mom should recognize that your sister is just making up lies to stir up trouble, and I think you should ask her to shut it down because your efforts have not worked. Be glad she’s not talking to you and just ignore her for as long as you can.
Maybe she thinks you are pregnant because you can no longer use periods?
Yta for making me read this garbled mess. Use punctuation and paragraph spaces.