Ok long story short I ended up with a military flag that an ex had left at my house for almost 3 years. I have repeatedly contacted him and his sister to try and return the flag to them since it was thier Dads funeral flag and he was a retired military vet and he has since passed away. The last time i had contacted the sister was probably about a year ago. I asked for her address because I was going to send her the flag. I was tired of holding onto it. Well she never got back to me. A year has passed since the last time I tried to make contact. Well I didn’t know exactly what to do with the flag so I got ahold of a friend who is also retired from the military and I asked them for advice on what to do with it. He said to give it to him, he would be able to take care of it for me and so I did just that. That was about 3 or 4 months ago. Well today I got a message from the sister asking about the flag and I told her I didn’t have it anymore and she blew up on me about it. Said I was stealing from her and it wasn’t my right to get rid of it and pressuring me for the guys information to contact him. I told her no I wasn’t going to give her his information because he doesn’t know her and I don’t think he would be comfortable with me giving out information like that to a stranger. Soni refused. She got upset and said what if it was my dad’s flag and I told her well if it was me in your situation and it was that important to me I would of prioritized getting the flag back. So my question is AM I An Asshole for giving away the flag?