So, me and my friend (both women) meet occasionally for a festival/gig/event. We have been best friends since childhood. Around a month ago, we went out and ended up at a party with these guys we met at a festival. I knew a few of them well already. Anyways, drinks flowing, only two women there, etc. next morning they say they are never doing that again because it isn’t fair to their boyfriend and I felt like they were insinuating it was my fault because I wanna party (I’m single) and im
Usually the one that says we should go to these parties etc. AITAH in this situation for not being respectful enough of their situation/relationship? Do I need to alter what I wanna do?
NTA
You didn’t force her, but now she’s speaking up and saying she doesn’t want to do that. So your nights with her (if it’s just the two of you) aren’t going to be ‘going to random guy’s houses for parties’. Save that for your single friends.
NAH. You did nothing wrong by going to a party, and your friend did nothing wrong by deciding not to do that anynore. I’d hold off on assuming they were blaming you unless that’s explicitly what they said; your friend could have just as easily been blaming themself.